Be careful who you break up with.
If you are in a relationship with an individual who has been emotionally affected and you wish to break up, then you must first analyze the individual and understand that he or she is affected mentally. Psychopaths have been shown as serial killers or people involved in ritual torture. But the psychopathic behavior is not like what has been shown in movies. It is a more common behavior. This is a condition where the individual is emotionally blind and indulges in cruel behavior. If you find this attitude in your partner then it could be a psychopathic behavior. If you wish breaking with a psychopath then you must handle it carefully as they may react vigorously.
One needs to handle such people patiently and with great deal of confidence that the individual will change his behavior. You must try to shower as much as love and make him understand his mental status. If there is a need, take the individual to a counselor and spend time with them and make them learn which is correct and which is wrong. You need to have long conversation with these individuals and remind them that misbehavior with others is wrong. You must not feel bad making your partner learn these things. But if you feel that he or she has not changed and want breaking with a psychopath then you must take the decision in a measured way.
Psychopaths will use people for their material value and will not be able to realize others emotional values. They never remain attached to anyone or anything for a long period of time. They will not regret for their misbehavior or the torture that is being done on others. They react to situations only when they are caught or about to be locked up. When an individual has relationship with such a person, he or she will have to have high level of tolerance to manage such people. Many people get irritated and breaking with a psychopath is their first choice, as they do not wish to compromise in their life.
Several individuals try to change the behavior of such psychopaths but are in vain. They take care of them and patiently tolerate all their actions. They wish to handle the situation independently and not show up that they have a relationship with a psychopath. But sometimes their tolerance level is tested and this will push them to make a decision of breaking with a psychopath and not look back. This might make them get huge relief mentally and physically.
Many psychopaths try to understand their behavior and wish to change but their mental frame work and the situations does not make them do so. Number of counseling by psychiatrist and by their loved ones will make them realize about their position and make them correct their behavior. But this remains only for few days or weeks and they tend to move back and this irritate partners and make them take the decision of breaking with a psychopath.
